When we talk about legal issues, we often use the phrase “leaving a paper trail.” This refers to creating a written record of agreements, statements and actions that later can be used in Court. Today, it’s easier to leave a paper trail than ever before thanks to the widespread use of social media, emails and texting. It’s more important ever to be careful what you say, or share, online. Here’s our advice on using social media during a divorce.

Don’t Post About Your Case on Social Media.

During your divorce you will likely experience anger, sadness or confusion. Naturally, you will want to share that on facebook, twitter, or another social media site. However it’s important to maintain control, and avoiding airing your grievances online. Even if you message someone privately, whatever you say on social media can potentially be used against you in court. It’s better to have these discussions with your attorney, or close friends and family over the phone.

Be careful not to Incriminate Yourself.

Even if you do not talk about your case online, your prudence shouldn’t stop there. Consider how other things you post about could potentially be used against you. If you are asking for more financial support, it might be unwise to post about going on a shopping spree or major vacation. Similarly, if you tell a white lie, but accidentally prove it online, it can easily be used against you in Court. The best policy is always honesty, paired with a bit of prudence about what you share online.

Don’t use social media to go after your spouse.

The most common way social media comes up in most cases is to demonstrate communication between the spouses. An angry tirade of messages, name-calling or threats can severely weaken your case and cost you sympathy. In severe cases, it may result in a restraining order or other serious action. Fight the urge to lash out against your spouse using social media… it almost always comes back to haunt you.

Social Media During a Divorce: Our Advice

To review, do not post about your case on Facebook, Twitter, or other social media sites. It can lead to escalation and things can be used against you in Court. Be careful not to incriminate yourself based on your social media posts: Honesty is the best policy. Lastly, do not go after your spouse or lash out using social media. This is the easiest way to get in trouble, even though it’s easy to avoid. That’s our advice for using social media during a divorce. Looking for a better, low-conflict way to get a divorce? Consider divorce mediation, the healthier & more affordable option.