A divorce consultation can be an intimidating experience. It’s totally normal to be unsure about what to expect and have a lot of questions. However it is a good idea to take some time to prepare to make the most of this limited time with an attorney. Before we dig into what to bring to a divorce consultation, let’s first explain what they are.

What is a Divorce Consultation?

A divorce consultation is the first step to hiring a divorce attorney. It’s your chance to get to know them and ask questions, while the attorney can learn more about you and your case. At the end, if both parties want to move forward, you can discuss signing a retainer agreement to hire the attorney to represent you. Sometimes, a consultation is enough to get the legal answers and advice you need. Either way, it’s important to bring a few key items so you can get all the information you need.

Here’s What to Bring to a Divorce Consultation

Some attorneys ask you to bring specific items or complete a checklist for their consultations. In addition to any specific requests, here are the five things we always encourage our clients to bring with them to a divorce consultation.

Your Photo ID and Social Security Number

These are important documents for establishing your identity and are often required if you choose to continue on as a client or if you need anything notarized. 

Legal Forms, Documents or Paperwork

Bring birth and marriage certificates, prenuptial agreements, divorce paperwork, or any other official records relevant to your case. If you’re unsure if something is relevant, bring it just in case.

Recent Tax Returns and Wage Stubs

Financial records play a big role in most divorces. To start out, bring your recent tax returns and paystubs for the past 6 months.

A List of Your Questions

To ensure you remember everything you want to ask, bring a list of all the questions you have for the attorney. It’s easy to get caught in the moment and forget something – a phone call later will cost you.

Any Relevant Evidence or Records

If you think your spouse is or has done something wrong, illegal or harmful to you or your kids, bring any evidence or records you have with you to document the incident.

What to Bring to a Divorce Consultation: Now You Know.

Preparing for your divorce consultation is essential to get the information you need and start the divorce process. Bringing the above items will help ensure you and the attorney can get to know the info needed to move forward. Have a question or something to add? Leave a comment below for our readers.